“If you fear that the couple may separate, then appoint a mediator from his family and a mediator from her family. If they both desire reconciliation, Allaah will create unity between the couple (if this is best for them). Verily Allaah is All Knowing, Informed.” [An-Nisaa, 4:35]
If (judging from his behaviour) a woman fears that her husband may ill-treat her or leave her, there shall be no sin on the couple should they make peace between themselves (in an amicable and effective manner) . Making peace is best (better than ill-treatment and divorce). (However,) Selfishness (coupled with greed) has been made present in the souls (of men. Therefore, making peace may require sacrifices from both husband and wife). If you deal cordially (in a good manner) and adopt Taqwa, then (remember that) indeed Allaah is Informed of what you do (and He will reward you for every good act). [An-Nisaa, 4:128]
“If you make peace and adopt Taqwa, then surely Allaah is Most Forgiving, Most Merciful.” [An-Nisaa, 4:129]
With over 23 years of experience, our Imam has provided Islamic marital counselling to couples confronting a wide array of challenges, including infidelity, various forms of abuse (physical, emotional, verbal, and financial), interference from in-laws, lack of emotional support, poor communication, diminished intimacy, unrealistic expectations, etc.
Couples should understand that there are no quick fixes to marital challenges. Healing and rebuilding a relationship take time, patience, and sincere effort from both partners. Reconciliation becomes possible when each spouse is genuinely committed to nurturing the marriage and applying the insights gained during counselling. Without this shared dedication, the process can be difficult and, in some cases, may result in divorce.
Our Imam offers guidance in accordance with the Qur’an, Sunnah, and Islamic jurisprudence (Fiqh). Multiple sessions over a period of time may be necessary, and the cooperation and commitment of both partners are essential.
- Please Note: These sessions are led by our Imam who provides faith-based advice and spiritual guidance in accordance with Islamic teachings. The Imam is not a government-licensed marriage counsellor.
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Key Details about the Islamic Marital Counselling services at Masjid Bilal
- Islamic Principles: The sessions are based on Qur’an, Sunnah, and Fiqh, ensuring that the guidance aligns with Islamic values.
- Confidentiality: All sessions are completely confidential. Your privacy is a priority, and no information will be shared unless required by law.
- Safe, Non-Judgmental Environment: The sessions take place in a safe space, free of judgment, where you can openly discuss your concerns.
- Islamic Ethics and Etiquette: All participants are expected to abide by Islamic ethics and etiquette during the sessions to ensure a respectful and productive environment.
- Honesty & Commitment: We kindly ask that all participants maintain honesty and a commitment to attending multiple sessions, to benefit fully from the process. Sessions are most beneficial when both spouses are present.
- Legal Matters: Please note that while we can offer guidance and support grounded in Islamic principles, any legal matters must be addressed with the assistance of a qualified lawyer. Our role is to provide religious-focused counselling, not legal advice.
To Book or Inquire:
📞 Call: 416-264-1222 (Weekdays between Zuhr and Esha — leave a message if unanswered)
📧 Email: imam@masjidbilal.ca
💬 Please inquire about the current fee structure when booking your session.
Value & Trust-Based Contribution Model
Our counselling services are offered under a value and trust-based contribution model. Our goal is to make Islamic counselling accessible to all, while ensuring the sustainability of our services.
We invite clients to contribute according to:
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The value and benefit of the services, and
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Their personal capacity to give.
This approach is rooted in trust, fairness, and compassion. Every contribution helps us continue providing Islamic Marriage Counselling and support to those in need.
Appointment Location:
- In-person: In-person appointments at the Masjid Bilal office for a more personal and direct connection.
- Zoom: However, appointments via Zoom are also available for those who prefer virtual sessions.