Islamic Marital Guidance

“If you fear that the couple may separate, then appoint a mediator from his family and a mediator from her family. If they both desire reconciliation, Allaah will create unity between the couple (if this is best for them). Verily Allaah is All Knowing, Informed.” [An-Nisaa, 4:35]

If (judging from his behaviour) a woman fears that her husband may ill-treat her or leave her, there shall be no sin on the couple should they make peace between themselves (in an amicable and effective manner) . Making peace is best (better than ill-treatment and divorce). (However,) Selfishness (coupled with greed) has been made present in the souls (of men. Therefore, making peace may require sacrifices from both husband and wife). If you deal cordially (in a good manner) and adopt Taqwa, then (remember that) indeed Allaah is Informed of what you do (and He will reward you for every good act). [An-Nisaa, 4:128]

“If you make peace and adopt Taqwa, then surely Allaah is Most Forgiving, Most Merciful.” [An-Nisaa, 4:129]

With over 23 years of experience, our Imam has provided Islamic marital
counselling to couples confronting a wide array of challenges, including infidelity, various forms of abuse (physical, emotional, verbal, and financial), interference from in-laws, lack of emotional support, poor communication, diminished intimacy, unrealistic expectations, etc.

Why Choose Islamic Marital Counselling

1. Islamic Marital Counselling rooted in the Qur’an and Sunnah, helps couples align their relationship with Islamic values.
2. Islamic Marital Counselling helps spouses reconnect emotionally and spiritually, improving communication and trust, while understanding the sacred nature of nikah as an act of worship.
3. Couples learn healthy ways to address disagreements using Islamic principles.
4. A confidential and supportive environment allows couples to discuss sensitive matters, eg. communication breakdown, finances, intimacy, parenting, or extended family, without stigma or shame.
5. Early intervention can help resolve issues before they become entrenched. This will help preserve marriages and protect families while honouring Islam’s emphasis on reconciliation.

Couples should understand that there is no quick solution to marital difficulties. Multiple sessions over a period of time may be necessary, and the cooperation and commitment of both partners are essential. Addressing these challenges requires both partners’ time, effort, and sincere commitment. Reconciliation is attainable when both spouses are genuinely dedicated to preserving their marriage. In the absence of such commitment, the process may prove extremely difficult, potentially resulting in the dissolution of the marriage.

Key Details About the Faith-Based (Islamic) Counselling Process:

• Islamic Principles: The counselling is based on Qur’an, Sunnah, and Fiqh, ensuring that the guidance aligns with Islamic values.
• Confidentiality: All sessions are completely confidential. Your privacy is a priority, and no information will be shared unless required by law.
• Safe, Non-Judgmental Environment: Sessions are conducted in a confidential, safe, and non-judgmental space where you can speak openly, explore your concerns, and express yourself with comfort and trust.
• Islamic Ethics and Etiquette: All participants are expected to abide by Islamic ethics and etiquette during the sessions to ensure a respectful and productive environment.
• Honesty & Commitment: We kindly ask that all participants to maintain honesty and a commitment to attending multiple sessions if required, in order to benefit fully from the process.
• Legal Matters: Please note that while we can provide support based on Islamic principles, any legal matters must be handled with the assistance of a lawyer.

Services are provided by our Imam, Mawlana Mushtaq Shaikh. Please click here to read about our Imam.

Our fees are value-based and trust-priced. If you are interested in benefiting from this service or have any questions, please email our Imam at: imam@masjidbilal.ca, for details on the current fee structure and availability.

Full-time students are welcome to inquire about discounted rates.

Note: The Imam is not a government-licensed counsellor. These sessions are intended for Islamic guidance only.